Mental health articles

Always pick the person is not confident enough to hide the inferiority "…" from the Qing Dynasty scholar Shen Juyun's "…", this word tells us, from yourself and others fault attitude, can tell a person's character. In life there are always not to go with the waiters in the restaurant customers parents. Have a word to explain this kind of person — "humble slow" ancient Chinese, namely surface arrogant, but the heart of inferiority. It is to hide the inferiority, so did regard oneself head and shoulders above others, love criticism, criticism. Psychologists have found that, low self-esteem people more like to talk about the faults of others, belittle others, because they feel inferior to others, only to belittle others and itself, even worse than their own position, the heart to feel. At the same time, because of poor self-confidence, originally doubt yourself, then hear the criticism will be more susceptible to. In order to protect self-esteem, they will adopt a defensive and offensive attitude towards criticism. The total self-esteem, self-confident people can tolerate other people's short comings and mistakes, appreciate the merits of others, because they don't think of others than their own good is threatened; they also refused to accept criticism, because self-awareness and self-confidence, the heart is stable in other words, they are accepted for himself, was criticized for not fight them self confidence. Take this saying control yourself, to see whether they are evil smell yourself whether or not the talkative person, know what is a how of person. We must from the real heart of respect, love yourself, the mistake as a chance to grow, instead of denying yourself. In order to enlarge the heart, learn to tolerate the faults of others, appreciate the merits of others. This kind of life is happiness, wisdom, magnanimous.

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