Mental health articles

In today's more and more one-child, school holidays became parents headache time, some parents was amazed to find that children become slave of television. The "children's TV" has great dependence on TV, in addition to sleep time, nearly all their vacation is spent in front of the TV, every TV show won't be "let go", advertising also see with relish.

Parents worry makes sense, TV will inevitably be heavy dependence on a series of problems, and incalculable bad influence on the children's physical and mental, can lead to the child psychologically very withdrawn, more likely to develop autism television, show the mood depression, melancholy, energy shortage, quiet. According to data shows, with this kind of autistic children don't want to leave the TV, already don't want to talk to others, also don't want to take part in the activity, both in terms of interpersonal communication ability is very poor, but not in real life. They are lonely and shy personality, emotional instability, lack of life common sense, the lack of ability to learn, can't adapt to the society. But due to bad relationship, withdrawn people in loneliness, depression, not only the heart be very painful, spirit will follow depression, decadent. Stuck in a vicious circle, both greatly reduces the child's social adaptation ability, the thinking activity also is restrained, the slow, learning efficiency is reduced, serious, catastrophic consequences.

Is better to tie the bell person, parents responsibility must be good at observation, discover the child's autism psychological tendency, and find out countermeasures to take action as soon as possible. For example, parents should spare some time and after work every day to communicate with children; Should strictly control their children watch TV time; To choose and children age that meet the needs of health programs; Still can accompany their children to watch TV, properly explain television content in real time to help a child understand, and ask the children to retell some contents to make the child out of the TV as soon as possible. In addition, parents should set an example, to as little as possible to see or watch TV, lest affect children's normal life; Should and children together, as much as possible by telling stories, playing games and so on means to distract children on TV; To guide the children to participate in some more meaningful activity in the outdoors, and appropriately expand the network, let the child contact with the surrounding people. For self-discipline ability of children, parents can also let children themselves make a feasible plan of study, and then let the children living in accordance with the established plan has a destination, and then let it far away from the television.

Is especially important, should focus on improving children's relationship with people around you, help children take the initiative to contact with others to expand exchanges, especially should pay attention to harmonizing the relationship between the children and relatives and classmates, meet the needs of children love and belonging, let its fully felt the warmth of family and collective, make its have some psychological comfort, life security, to eliminate the alert psychology, then let it into normal life circle.

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